Monday, March 07, 2005
{ 10:37 PM }
hmmmx.. i found Tis meaNingful n qUite trUe..when rEaDing one of Muhh FrENx de BLog..
whenn euu tinkk orrb urr pastt lubb, euu mayy viiew itt as a failurre. bt whenn euu findd a new lubb, euu viiew darr pastt as a teachher. iin darr game orrb lubb, itt dosentt reallii matterr hu wiin or hu lostt. watt ish importtantt ish euu noe whenn tuu holdd on andd whenn tuu lett go..!! euu noe euu reallii lubb sumone whenn euu wann hiim or herr tuu bb happii, evven iff theirr happiiness meanns datt euu r nott partt orrb itt. evverrytiing happenns forr darr bez.
iff darr perrsonn euu lubb dosentt lubb euu bacc, dontt bb afrraidd tuu lubb summone ellse agaiin, forr euu wiill nvrr noe unlless euu gidd it a trry. euu wiill nvrr lubb a perrsonn euu lubb unlless euu riskk forr lubb. lubb striives forr hurrting. iff euu dontt gett hurrt, euu dontt learrn how tuu lubb. lubb dosentt hurrtx all darr tyme. thoughh darr hurrtin ish stiill derre tuu testt euu, tuu hellp euu grrow. dontt fiindd lubb, lett lubb fiindd euu. datt's y itt ish calledd falliin iin lubb cos euu dontt forrce urrselff tuu fall. euu jus fall. euu cannott fiinishh a bookk witthoutt closiin itt's chaptters. iff euu wann tuu go onn, denn euu wiill habb tuu leavve darr pastt as euu turrn darr pagges
lubb ish nott destrroyedd byx a single faiilurre or wiin byx a siingle carress. itt ish a liffe tyme venturre iin whiich we r olways learrnin, diiscoveriing andd grrowiin. darr greattestt irony orrb lubb ish lettin go whenn euu niid tuu holdd andd holddin on whenn euu nidd tuu lett go. we lose summone we lubb onii whenn we r destiinedd tuu fiindd summone ellse hu cann lubb us evven morr dann we cann lubb ourrselff. onn falliin outt orrb lubb, takke sumtyme tuu heall andd denn gett bacc onn darr horrse. btt dontt everr makke darr same mistakke orrb riddin darr same one datt threw euu darr firrst tyme.
tuu lubb ish tuu riiskk rejecttion; tuu liive ish tuu riiskk dyiing, tuu hoppe ish tuu riiskk faiilurre. btt riiskk mus bb takken cos darr greattestt hazardd iin liffe sih riiskkin ntth..!! tuu reachh forr anottherr ish tuu riiskk iinvolvementt, tuu exppose urr feelliin ish tuu exppose trrue selff; tuu lubb ish tuu riiskk nott tuu lubb iin returrn. how tuu defiine lubb: fall btt do nott sttumble, bb consttantt btt nott too perrsisttentt, sharre btt nvrr bb unfaiir, underrsttandd andd trry nott tuu demandd, hurtt btt nvrr keepp darr paiin.
lubb ish lykk a kniiffe. itt cann sttabb darr hearrtt or itt cann carrve wondderrfull iimages iintuu darr soull datt olways lastt forr a liifetyme. lubb ish supposedd tuu bb darr mos wondderrfull feelliin. itt shouldd iinspirre euu andd giibb euu joy andd sttrengtth.
btt sumtymes darr ttings datt giibb euu joy cann oso hurrtt euu iin darr endd. lubbiin ppl meanns gibbiin dem darr frreddom datt dey choose tuu bb andd whrr dey choose tuu bb. forr all darr hearrtaches andd darr tearrs, forr gloomy daex andd frruitless yrs, euu shouldd giibb thx, forr euu noe, datt derre werre darr ttiings datt hellpedd euu grrow.
lubbiin summone meanns giibiin hiim darr frreddom tuu ffindd hiis way, whettherr itt leadds tuuwarrdds euu or away frrm euu. lubb ish a paiinful riiskk tuu takke btt darr riiskk mus bb takken no matterr how scarry or paiinfful, forr onii denn euu wiill experrience darr ffullness orrb humaniitty andd datt ish lubb. onii lubb cann hurrt urr hearrtt, ffill euu wiibb desiire andd tearrs euu appartts. onii lubb cann makke euu crry andd onii lubb noes y. Iiff euu r nott readdy tuu crry, iff euu r nott readdy tuu takke darr riiskk, iff euu r nott readdy tuu feell darr paiin, denn euu r nott readdy tuu ffall iin lubb.
derre ish a tyme iin ourr liives whenn we bbcum afrraiidd tuu ffall iin lubb cos everryyme we do, we gett hurrt, denn i figurredd outt; datt's y itt ish calledd ffallin iin lubb.
